The holiday season is upon us, dammit. Oops, did I say that out loud? That means turkey, pumpkin pie, family gatherings, expectations, stress, premeditated resentments, and memories of s#!tshows past. Whoops, sorry! Did I say that out loud, too? I meant to say, love, joy, peace, and Norman-Rockwell-like bliss. Only that’s not the whole story,…